about us
Live Life Queerly exists because queer joy deserves a home — somewhere to find your people, discover what's on, and hopefully have a laugh along the way.
the why
Following a dozen different accounts and still missing events is exhausting. Our Events Calendar pulls as much of the London (for now) queer social scene as possible into one single source of truth — so you always know what's on, and can add it to your own calendar in one tap.
Our Directory helps you find queer-owned businesses and charities worth supporting. Whether you're looking for a photographer, a therapist, or a cause to donate to - we want to make it easy to keep your money in the community.
Queer life is genuinely hilarious — the dating disasters, the unhinged group chats, the red flags we somehow missed. The Playground is a space for lighthearted games, and Dr Queermess has only graduated to help us navigate the queer dating drama.
meet the alter ego
Dr Queermess is a fictional therapist with very real opinions on queer dating. She analyses the kind of messages that belong in a museum, or possibly a courtroom.
Don't forget to submit your own chaotic dating stories to be immortalised.
Catch her on Instagram or TikTok at @drqueermess.
Live Life Queerly is a one-woman operation — built, written, designed, and run by a queer woman who got tired of the community being scattered across a thousand different corners of the internet and social media.
This site is a hub for queer community, culture, and absolutely unhinged dating stories.
Everything here is made with love, a lot of coffee, and the firm belief that we can't lose our joy and we are more connected than the algorithm gives us credit for.
If you have any idea on how to make this site better, please reach out :)
This site is free and built entirely by one person in her spare time. If it's made you smile, helped you find something to do this weekend, or you just appreciate the chaos of Dr Queermess, feel free to donate towards a coffee.
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