about us

built by the community,
for the community

Live Life Queerly exists because queer joy deserves a home — somewhere to find your people, discover what's on, and hopefully have a laugh along the way.

the why

01

bringing us together IRL

Following a dozen different accounts and still missing events is exhausting. Our Events Calendar pulls as much of the London (for now) queer social scene as possible into one single source of truth — so you always know what's on, and can add it to your own calendar in one tap.

02

spending your money with our people

Our Directory helps you find queer businesses and charities worth supporting. Whether you're looking for a photographer, a therapist, or a cause to donate to - we want to make it easy to keep your money in the community.

03

having a proper laugh

Queer life is genuinely hilarious — the dating disasters, the unhinged group chats, the red flags we somehow missed. The Playground is a space for lighthearted games, and Dr Queermess has only graduated to help us navigate the queer dating drama.

Have a suggestion, want to work together, or just want to say hello?

Get in touch

meet Dr Queermess

Dr Queermess is a fictional therapist that hears about all types of queer dating stories - the kind of messages that belong in a museum, or possibly in another planet. Her silent companion, Biscuit, sits by her side - an office dog who has seen things.

Don't forget to submit your own funny or chaotic dating stories to be immortalised.

Catch her on Instagram or TikTok at @drqueermess.

Dr Queermess, an illustrated therapist with tousled hair, thick black glasses and a purple cable-knit jumper
Biscuit, Dr Queermess's small illustrated Yorkshire terrier office dog

the human behind it

founder

Live Life Queerly is a one-human operation: built, written, designed, and run by a queer woman who got tired of the community being scattered across a thousand different corners of the internet and social media.

This site is a hub for queer community, culture, and absolutely unhinged dating stories.

Everything here is made with love, a lot of coffee, and the firm belief that we can't lose our joy and we are more connected than the algorithm gives us credit for.

If you have any idea on how to make this site better, please reach out :)